Self-Helpless

Crossover Media Group

Described by fans as "an unfiltered thera-brunch with your best friends," and "light conversations about heavy sh*t," The Self-Helpless Podcast candidly explores the highs, lows, and gray areas of all things personal growth, including how we can integrate everyday activism into our lives. Enjoy special guests — including authors, health professionals, a variety of public figures, and subscribers who courageously share their stories. Hosted by comedy writer, activist, vegan lady, and someone deemed by listeners as having "BSE" (big sister energy), Delanie Fischer. Exclusive rewards are now available at patreon.com/selfhelpless.

Past guests include Tan France, Michael Buble,' Whitney Cummings, Pete Holmes, Dr. Ramani, Ed Winters, Gad Elmaleh, Kati Morton, Preacher Lawson, Brian Regan, Jessamyn Stanley, Mike Birbiglia, Freddie Prinze Jr., Rachel Ricketts, Nikki Glaser, Sonya Renee Taylor, and lots more wonderful people offering up their perspective and insights.

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When You're Single At 35 (+ Eldest Daughter Syndrome) with Natalie Katona
6d fa
When You're Single At 35 (+ Eldest Daughter Syndrome) with Natalie Katona
Delanie Fischer is joined by Natalie Katona, who shares about her experience with eldest daughter syndrome, and being the single one in her family and friend group at age 35. She shares how she handles unsolicited questions about her relationship status, what boundaries she's put in place as the eldest daughter, new traditions she's created with friends, and how she feels about having a life partner. This episode is part of our series, "Subscriber Stories."Plus:+ Your New Favorite Holiday Tradition+ 4 Signs You Have Eldest Daughter Syndrome+ Natalie's Favorite Anchor QuestionMore episodes related to this topic:Why You Became A People-Pleaser: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/27c52c66/why-you-became-a-people-pleaserPeople-Pleasing with Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2381a68f/people-pleasing-with-taylor-tomlinson-kelsey-cook-and-delanie-fischerTips For Dating In Your 30s (On And Off The Apps): https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/31372374/tips-for-dating-in-your-30s-on-and-off-the-appsHow Being Children of Divorce Has Influenced Our Relationships: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1c146b94/how-being-children-of-divorce-has-influenced-our-relationshipsOvercoming Holiday Anxiety with Taylor, Kelsey, and Delanie: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/9ddd1cf7/overcoming-holiday-anxiety-with-taylor-kelsey-and-delanieYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
20+ Years Thriving With Stage IV Cancer with Kris Carr
23-09-2024
20+ Years Thriving With Stage IV Cancer with Kris Carr
Delanie Fischer is joined by New York Times bestselling author and wellness leader, Kris Carr, to discuss her experience thriving with stage IV cancer for over 20 years. Kris shares about the moment she received her diagnosis, how long she was given to live, and how it changed the course of her life — including her health, relationships, and career. Whether you've received a diagnosis, struggle with perfectionism around wellness, have a hard time prioritizing what matters most to you, or need a boost of courage to start something new, this episode is packed with insights.Plus:+ 2 Questions That Will Change Your Life+ A Mindset Hack To Reduce Rumination+ Kris Carr's 5 Pillars of WellnessMore episodes related to this topic:Gratitude, Presence, And Surviving Cancer (Twice) with Janet Knode: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/340285b3/gratitude-presence-and-surviving-cancer-twice-with-janet-knodeReceiving A Cancer Diagnosis with Sofiya Alexandra: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/6f93a8cd/surviving-cancer-with-sofiya-alexandraRumination: How To Break A Negative Thought Loop: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1a24bc64/rumination-how-to-break-a-negative-thought-loopDebunking Nutrition Myths with Registered Dietician, Dr. Pamela Fergusson: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2af06551/debunking-nutrition-myths-with-registered-dietician-dr-pamela-fergusson50 Simple And Delicious Vegan Swaps: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1f47872a/50-simple-and-delicious-vegan-swapsExploring Perfectionism with Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/d69d8eee/exploring-perfectionism-with-taylor-tomlinson-kelsey-cook-and-delanie-fischerYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Craving A Healthy Relationship? Understand Your Attachment Style with Thais Gibson
16-09-2024
Craving A Healthy Relationship? Understand Your Attachment Style with Thais Gibson
Delanie Fischer is joined by best-selling author, counselor, and Attachment Theory expert, Thais Gibson. Thais breaks down the 4 different attachment styles (with some seriously juicy examples for each), and shares how fixed or flexible your attachment style is throughout your life, what differentiates an attachment style from a disorder, debunks common attachment theory misconceptions, and even gives Delanie a diagnostic of her own attachment style.Plus:+ 3 Things That Will Save Your Relationship+ Is it an Attachment Style or a Personality Disorder?+ The 4 Attachment Styles vs. The 5 Love LanguagesMore episodes related to this topic:7 Shocking Truths About Codependency And Addiction with Heidi Rain: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/24c74079/7-shocking-truths-about-codependency-and-addiction-with-heidi-rain6 Steps To Break A Toxic Relationship Pattern with Justine Carino: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1a75687c/6-steps-to-break-a-toxic-relationship-pattern-with-justine-carinoThe 4 Intimacy Styles with Dr. Viviana Coles: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2f3f2d2c/the-4-intimacy-styles-with-dr-viviana-colesHow Being Children of Divorce Has Influenced Our Relationships: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1c146b94/how-being-children-of-divorce-has-influenced-our-relationshipsAttachment Styles with Jessica Michelle Singleton: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1c815b8a/attachment-styles-with-jessica-michelle-singletonThe 4 Attachment Styles (And Our Quiz Results): https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2283b7fd/the-4-attachment-styles-and-our-quiz-resultsYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Creating A Life Brief And Getting "Fuzzy Clear" with Bonnie Wan
09-09-2024
Creating A Life Brief And Getting "Fuzzy Clear" with Bonnie Wan
Delanie Fischer is joined by Bonnie Wan, author of The Life Brief: A Playbook For No-Regrets Living. They discuss Bonnie's 3-part Life Brief process (inspired by the professional concept of a creative brief) for gaining clarity and implementing small, but mighty, action during times of transition. Whether you're on the brink of burnout, stuck in indecision, or feel ready for a pivot, this episode will inspire you to start your own Life Brief and generate creative solutions that make the biggest impact. Plus:+ The 3 Phases of The Life Brief Process+ How To Get "Fuzzy Clear" When You Feel Stuck+ 1 Simple Exercise That Uncovers Your Biggest ValuesMore episodes related to this topic:Let's Define What Enough Means To YOU: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/20310cb2/lets-define-what-enough-means-to-youMini Habits by Stephen Guise: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/21d7febe/mini-habits-by-stephen-guiseSelf-Helpless Snack: How To Let Your Ideal Lifestyle Inspire Your Next Step with Olivia Mulford: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/24291d42/self-helpless-snack-how-to-let-your-ideal-lifestyle-inspire-your-next-step-with-olivia-mulfordAtomic Habits by James Clear: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/24bc636e/atomic-habits-by-james-clear10 Tips For Applying Minimalism To Your Space And Schedule: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/256a652b/10-tips-for-applying-minimalism-to-your-space-and-scheduleThe 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/33b48b31/the-7-habits-of-highly-effective-people-by-stephen-r-coveyYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Waking Up With Amnesia, Unsolved Mysteries, And Life With Uncertainty with Olly Dove
02-09-2024
Waking Up With Amnesia, Unsolved Mysteries, And Life With Uncertainty with Olly Dove
Delanie Fischer is joined by Olly Dove, who shares about a series of traumatic experiences — including waking up in the hospital with amnesia due to a mysterious seizure. She describes how these experiences impacted her OCD, relationships, and outlook on life. Plus, what's kept her grounded through fear and uncertainty, and how she's been able to accomplish big academic and athletic goals along the way. This episode is part of our summer series, "Subscriber Stories."Plus:+ 1 Story Olly Tells Herself To Reduce Anxiety+ Olly's Favorite Quote For Tough Days+ 3 Things That Are Helping Her HealMore episodes related to this topic:Living With Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) with Cy Amundson: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/219d26ec/living-with-obsessive-compulsive-disorder-ocd-with-cy-amundsonOCD and Overcoming Fear with Brian Regan: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/d79d56c0/ocd-and-overcoming-fear-with-brian-reganPost-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) with Licensed Therapist, Nadirah Habeebullah: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/327baacc/post-traumatic-stress-disorder-ptsd-with-licensed-therapist-nadirah-habeebullah15 Tips For Managing Stage Fright In Work And Life with Em Schulz and Delanie Fischer: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/21e3bc9e/15-tips-for-managing-stage-fright-in-work-and-life-with-em-schulz-and-delanie-fischerYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
The Reality Behind Reality TV with Renee Ash of Peacock's Love Undercover: Online Critics, Public Heartbreak, And Personal Growth
26-08-2024
The Reality Behind Reality TV with Renee Ash of Peacock's Love Undercover: Online Critics, Public Heartbreak, And Personal Growth
Delanie Fischer is joined by Renee Ash, TV personality from Peacock's Love Undercover, to discuss her experience as a cast member, and all that comes with it -- including visibility, online criticism, public heartbreak, personal growth, and more. Plus, the inside scoop on how a production like this operates! Whether you're a fan of reality shows, you're going through a break-up, or you're navigating some criticism, this episode has helpful tips, insights, and fun takeaways. Plus:+ 2 Ways To Filter Online Criticism To Help You Process+ Renee's Favorite (And Least Favorite) Quotes+ What Public Heartbreak Has Taught Her MostMore Self-Helpless episodes related to this topic:Self Expression with Queer Eye's Tan France: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2263ab7f/self-expression-with-tan-franceThe 4 Intimacy Styles with Dr. Viviana Coles of Married At First Sight: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2f3f2d2c/the-4-intimacy-styles-with-dr-viviana-colesYour Burning Relationship Questions Answered with Rachel DeAlto of MAFS: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/3f1ddb9c/your-burning-relationship-questions-answered-with-rachel-dealtoYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Burnout, A Breakdown, And Beginning Again with Jessica Gemme
19-08-2024
Burnout, A Breakdown, And Beginning Again with Jessica Gemme
Delanie Fischer is joined by Jessica Gemme, who shares a variety of her personal experience as a former educator including being a substitute teacher, paraprofessional, running her own classroom, assisting kids with special needs, teaching history to research and technology, and working in inner city and rural schools. She opens up about the pressures she felt, safety concerns, her workload, hitting major burnout, and gives some hot tips for handling difficult behaviors in the classroom. Whether you're considering (or have) a career in education, are struggling in your current job, or you're overwhelmed with personal stuff, this episode offers insights and solidarity. This ep. is part of our summer series, "Subscriber Stories."Plus:+ Practicing Post-Burnout Self-Care+ Breaking out of The Comparison Trap+ 5 Awesome Insider Tips for EducatorsMore episodes related to this topic:Hurry Sickness And The Busy Brain Cure with Dr. Romie Mushtaq: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/243d15fa/hurry-sickness-and-the-busy-brain-cure-with-dr-romie-mushtaqDepression, Antidepressants, and Burnout: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/22cc22cb/depression-antidepressants-and-burnoutSigns And Symptoms of Creator Burnout (Plus, Some Hot Tips!): https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/5112ba1f/signs-and-symptoms-of-creator-burnout-plus-some-hot-tipsHitting Burnout with Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/29322712/hitting-burnout-with-taylor-tomlinson-kelsey-cook-and-delanie-fischerYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
10 Fertility Myths Debunked with OBGYN and Fertility Doctor Natalie Crawford, MD
12-08-2024
10 Fertility Myths Debunked with OBGYN and Fertility Doctor Natalie Crawford, MD
Delanie Fischer is joined by Dr. Natalie Crawford, who is a board-certified OBGYN and fertility physician. Dr. Natalie is debunking the myths, misconceptions, and outdated "hacks" that surround the fertility conversation — touching on everything from sex positions and frequency, contraception, c-sections, secondary infertility, pregnancy loss, and so much more. Whether your desire is to conceive, or not, this episode is jam-packed with invaluable information about human health that will empower you to make the best choice for yourself, become your greatest advocate, and feel supported in whatever decision you make.Plus:+ A HUGE Birth Control Pill Myth Debunked+ What's The Deal With Age 35 And Female Fertility?+ 1 Question To Ask Your Doctor When Stuck In IndecisionMore episodes related to this topic:Matrescence: Caring For Yourself During Pregnancy, Childbirth, and Beyond with Dr. Sarah Oreck: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/29bc38a6/matrescence-caring-for-yourself-during-pregnancy-childbirth-and-beyond-with-dr-sarah-oreckUTIs, Interstitial Cystitis, and Pelvic Floor Dysfunction with Dr. Rena Malik: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1c573a89/utis-interstitial-cystitis-and-pelvic-floor-dysfunction-with-dr-rena-malikIMOMSOHARD with Kristin Hensley and Jen Smedley: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2410683d/imomsohard-with-kristin-hensley-and-jen-smedley3 Moms of Newborns Tell All: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/317ab0f6/3-moms-of-newborns-tell-allMy Experience With Postpartum Depression with Jessi Selleh: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/fda9b0f6/postpartum-depression-with-jessi-sellehHow To Adopt A Child with Adoption Lawyer, Lucrece Bundy: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2dc4b6b4/how-to-adopt-a-child-with-adoption-lawyer-lucrece-bundyYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Diagnosed Narcissist (Lee Hammock) and Clinical Psychologist (Dr. Ramani) Offer Insights Into Manipulation And Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
29-07-2024
Diagnosed Narcissist (Lee Hammock) and Clinical Psychologist (Dr. Ramani) Offer Insights Into Manipulation And Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
Delanie Fischer is sharing an epic mashup with you today. In the first half of the episode you'll hear from clinical psychologist, Dr. Ramani Durvasula, who provides an overview of narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder — the different types, signs and symptoms, definitions of popular buzzwords, etc., and you'll hear from Lee Hammock in the second half of the episode, who is a self-aware narcissist with a clinical diagnosis of NPD. Lee shares what it's like to live with this disorder, the whys behind his behaviors, and guidance for people who are in relationship with someone like him. This episode supports, and destigmatizes, those who have been impacted by this disorder.Plus:+ A Breakdown of The 8 Types of Narcissism+ The Root Cause of Narcissism and NPD+ How To Stop A Toxic Relationship PatternMore episodes related to this topic:The Impact of Gaslighting with Dr. Sarkis: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-psychological-impact-of-gaslighting-with/id1251196416?i=1000528606106Living with Borderline Personality Disorder Featuring Chris: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/26123a37/living-with-borderline-personality-disorder-featuring-chrisLiving with Narcissistic Personality Disorder with Lee Hammock: https://podcasts.apple.com/pk/podcast/living-with-narcissistic-personality-disorder-with/id1251196416?i=1000519855834Demystifying Borderline Personality Disorder with Dr. Ramani: https://podcasts.apple.com/lu/podcast/demystifying-borderline-personality-disorder/id1251196416?i=1000581362476Narcissism and NPD with Dr. Ramani: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/narcissism-and-narcissistic-personality-disorder-with/id1251196416?i=1000514861059How To Heal From Narcissistic Relationships with Dr. Ramani: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/how-to-heal-from-narcissistic-relationships-with-dr/id1251196416?i=1000647934771You can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.